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Thursday, September 2, 2010

Apathy - The Other Evangelism Killer


All heaven is interested in the cross of Christ,
all hell is terribly afraid of it,
while men are the only beings who more or less ignore it’s meaning.

– Oswald Chambers

In my previous series on fear we learned together what fear is, where it comes from, why we have it, and how to conquer it. But there is another enemy that lurks about wanting to take away our thunder as believers to be the church we were destined to be. Like fear, apathy is probably the only other killer of evangelism today.

What Is Apathy?

According to the Encarta Dictionary of North American English, apathy is the lack of enthusiasm or energy in the interest in anything, or the absence of any wish to do anything. It also means the inability to feel normal or passionate human feelings or to respond emotionally. Its synonyms are even more telling. Words like indifference; lack of concern or interest; lethargy; laziness; and boredom.

In modern Greek, apatheia, literally means “absence of passion”, “insensibility”, or “coolness”.



The graph to the left is the mental state between challenge level and skill level from a psychologist’s point of view, but can still be used to illustrate a typical problem in the church. As you can see we already have dealt with fear (anxiety) and even worry, though not at the level of anxiety, thus fears nonetheless. With fear and worry you see that the challenge level is from medium to high, with the skill level being the lowest on the scale. The Christian sees the need and desire to win souls, but doesn’t have (or think they have) the skills to do the task. One excuse might be “I don’t know enough”, where with apathy, both challenge and skill level is at the lowest on the scale. This means that the person is not skilled at all, and failing to be challenged to do so and whose excuse is plainly, “I don’t know…and I don’t care.”

I think of the modern church today when it comes to apathy and evangelism. Christians (and I say loosely) don’t know how to witness and care not to learn. A couple years ago when my friend Tony held an evangelism course in my church of 75 people, only three showed up. That means that only 4% of the church came to the course. Unfortunately it was one of the reasons why he left. The only bad thing is that even though he went to a larger church and had more people come to his class, it was still about 4% of the entire congregation which tells me that apathy crosses denominational lines as well. It’s not only a problem in one denomination or group, but the church as a whole.

Where should the Christian church be in the above diagram? Shouldn’t it be in FLOW? As a Christian, don’t you have a desire to see 6 billion people saved? Aren’t you challenged to see that come to pass? With two people dying every second (150,000 people/day), doesn’t that seem like an overwhelmingly important task? Even if you have family and friends who are unsaved, wouldn’t you like to spend eternity with them and be assured they are saved from God’s wrath in hell? So why do we feel apathy much of our lives?

Do you know why I am doing this blog? It’s because I need to be freed from apathy just like the next person. I struggle with apathy on a daily basis as much as much as I struggle with fear. My spirit is always at war with my flesh, and my flesh with my spirit. Personally, I am tired of it. In my spirit I want that passion and desire to see 6 billion people saved. I want to see bars and strip clubs shut down and hold bible studies. I want to see a person who hated Jesus Christ metamorphosisized by the power of the Holy Spirit and totally be sold out for God. Wouldn’t you like to see that happen? Just think a worldwide revival. If I can help myself along with others who are like minded…then I will do it…and God be glorified in it.

So mighty man or woman of valor…let’s break the bondage of apathy and live the life we were destined to live. To God be the glory.

Wednesday, September 1, 2010

Ways To Conquer Fear In Witnessing - What You Know About God Will Determine How You Respond To Fear

“We fear men so much, because we fear God so little. One fear causes another. When man’s terror scares you, turn your thoughts to the wrath of God.” - William Gurnall

This is probably the most biblical answer to conquering fear. Not only what the Lord HAS done for me, but what He WILL do for me in the future. We need to rely on God in His promises and what He said he will do. And why would we trust that God would help us? We need to trust in how God describes Himself in the Bible.

A Consuming Fire
Deuteronomy 4:24; 9:3
Hebrews 12:29

A Fortress
2 Samuel 22:2
Psalms 18:2; 91:2; 144:2
Nahum 1:7

A Defense
Psalm 5:11; 31:2
Isaiah 31:5; 37:35
Zechariah 9:15; 12:8

A Refuge
Exodus 33:22
Deuteronomy 33:27
Psalms 27:5; 31:20; 46:1; 71:3
Isaiah 25:4
Zechariah 9:12

A Shield
Genesis 15:1
Deuteronomy 33:29
Psalms 33:20; 84:11; 115:9

But it’s not just what God says about Himself in His Word, but also what He says about believers in Him. It’s important to understand what our relationship with the Lord is. It should be noted in the following that there are more instances where God calls us these things. Writing them all down would make this blog too long. There are more than likely other words that God describes Himself and us. God in His Word calls us:

The Bride of Christ
Isaiah 62:5
2 Corinthians 11:2
Revelations 19:7; 21:2; 22:17

Children of God
Romans 8:16-21; 9:26
1 John 3:10

Sons of God
John 1:12
Romans 8:14
Galatians 4:7
Philippians 2:15
1 John 3:1

Heirs of God
Romans 8:17
Titus 3:7

If we are the bride of Christ; children, sons, and heirs of God, wouldn’t you think that God would take care of us? Even though I don’t have children, I have a wife. If anyone messes with my wife, they mess with me. The Lord knows what we can deal with, and the extent of the trials we will face. But you may not be convinced of this promise yet. We see the heart of God’s faithfulness as our provider in Matthew 6:25-34, and as our Father who is looking for us in the parable of the lost sheep (Luke 15:1-7), the lost coin (Luke 15:8-10), and the prodigal son (Luke 15:11-32). In Romans 8:28 reads, “And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purposes”. No matter how bad the situation is for us, God will use it for His good.

So if this is all true, then what does God’s Word say about giving in to fear. What does this mean? It means that we do not trust in His faithfulness and we call Him a liar.

Revelation 21:7-8 – He who overcomes shall inherit all things, and I will be his God and he shall be My son. But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolotars, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death.

Of all these sins worthy of eternal hell, cowardly leads the pack. Why is that? Cowardly, in the King James is fearful. In Greek, it is deilos, which is having a fear that keeps you from doing a thing. The word is also used in Matthew 8:26 and Mark 4:40 which talks about when the disciples when they were fearful of being on the stormy waters of the Sea of Galilee. Why is that so important? Our courage is fueled by our faith in God. If we lack courage, it’s only because we lack faith. If we lack faith, we insult the integrity of Almighty God.
So today, think about God. Meditate on His power, might, and Holiness. When you feel scared, and fear about sharing your faith, think of the One who you are glorifying as you talk about Christ, the Father, and the Holy Spirit. Think about it, you are giving glory to God, worshipping Him as you share your faith. It can't get any better than that.